8 Steps to Being a Kinder Thespian

Written by Ashleigh Gardner

February 20, 2017

As thespians, we’re all misfits, and that’s why we come together to make art. We’re family, friends, and companions through thick and thin…but sometimes we slip a little. Our words aren’t as kind as they should be, and our actions make others feel undervalued. To bring back some of that love for your sisters and brothers, follow these 8 simple steps to becoming a kinder thespian.

Step #1 – Give your fellow performers space in the audition room.

Nobody likes being ganged up on or disrupted while they’re trying to prep. Instead, try saying hello, smiling, and wishing them, “Break a leg.” Then, stick to your own prep space.

Step #2 – Stay humble.

It’s okay to be proud of your success! Just don’t rub it in other people’s faces.

Step #3 – R.E.S.P.E.C.T. everybody!

Aretha Franklin knew the value of respect, and so should you. Give your lighting designer a wave, your costumer a high five, and your scene partner a pat on the back.

Step #4 – Be on time so you can be there for others.

Arrive to rehearsal early so you can help the director or stage manager set up. Or you may be needed to run a few lines with your acting partner. Arrive early or on time, and never underestimate the power of punctuality.

Step #5 – Be willing to lend a hand.

If the costumer or set designer needs help, raise your hand. It’s a great opportunity to learn new skills and brush up on some old ones. Plus, the people you’re helping will appreciate your generosity.

Step #6 – Cut the gossip.

The atmosphere of Gossip Girl lends itself well to television, but not so much to real life. Show your fellow artists that you care about them, and leave the gossip out of the conversation.

Step #7 – Ask how your fellow thespians are doing.

A quick, “How are you?” goes a long way, especially if someone is having a not-so-stellar day. Show them they’re not alone, and listen to them when they share their day with you.

Step #8 – Be authentic.

As theatre kids, we’re all misfits looking for a place to belong. Show your friends that they are valued, worthy of love and kindness, and cared for by a community that pushes others to see the beauty in humanity. Be that kind thespian everyone talks about.



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Ashleigh Gardner received her AA in Theatre/Drama/Dramatic Arts from Valencia College and her Bachelors Degree in English Literature and Masters Degree in Literary, Cultural, and Textual Studies from the University of Central Florida. She is a playwright, an actor, and PerformerStuff.com’s Editor.